8 Disturbing Things about India

From what career we choose, to who we marry. These major decisions of our life are forced onto us by our parents who are more worried about society than their child’s happiness. OMG! Sharmaji ka ladka engineering kar raha hai! Nalayak, tujhe IIT mein seat kyun nahi mili! When in first place, their son wanted to be a singer!

Those relatives who don't give a damn when you are in deep trouble, are the ones that parents worry about more than their child's happiness. Whether it is your career choices or the person you want to marry! Beta, log kya kahenge? Ladki humare caste ki nahin hai! Just why Papa? How does it matter what people think of my career choice or life partner when you approve of them!

Irony is here...

This is some serious problem that has been ignored by the masses. Whether you're bisexual or homosexual doesn't matter. You are a human first. And that is above all. People look down to such people. Its not abnormality to be a homo or trans, its a rarity. I'm still waiting for the day when there will be equality in true sense.

For the love of God, we must stop this! Its so hypocritical of us to talk about women empowerment and give the guy's family an upper-hand in marriages. Its like an encouragement to dowry. Women  empowerment begins at home. And we fail at it. Girls are not allowed to stay out as late as guys. I know that's not exactly what women empowerment  is about. But every single step towards erasing inequality is about women empowerment.

This is some serious problem that has been ignored by the masses. Whether you're bisexual or homosexual doesn't matter. You are a human first. And that is above all. People look down to such people. Its not abnormality to be a homo or trans, its a rarity. I'm still waiting for the day when there will be equality in true sense.

Well, the sub-heading is self explanatory. Why is it not so for men? Nobody gives a damn about the guys virginity. Nobody cares about what clothes he wears, then why is not so for women? I don't think a women's character should be judged by her clothes or virginity. It is her personal choice and she has every right to take such personal decisions. Her character should be judged by her thoughts. And the irony is...

For the love of God, we must stop this! Its so hypocritical of us to talk about women empowerment and give the guy's family an upper-hand in marriages. Its like an encouragement to dowry. Women  empowerment begins at home. And we fail at it. Girls are not allowed to stay out as late as guys. I know that's not exactly what women empowerment  is about. But every single step towards erasing inequality is about women empowerment.

I've been waiting for that all my life when people will stop gossiping about others life and see how deep into shit they themselves are. Aunties and uncles at the parties keep gossiping and back-biting about some or the other relative constantly, like their families are perfect. This is the saddest part of Indian gatherings. Like seriously, go get a life, man!

I hope you enjoyed reading this article. I hope you find it relatable. :)

Social gossip and intense community scrutiny can be pervasive in many parts of India, particularly in close-knit neighborhoods and extended family networks. This cultural tendency toward public commentary on personal matters can feel intrusive and unsettling to those who value privacy.