Message or Call in a few hours

Don't hammer her with texts and friend requests five minutes after meeting her, but it's OK to call her a little early if that feels natural.But waiting for days and weeks is just mean. It might give her the hint that you aren't interested and she'll move on. 8. Be straight with her. If you're not looking for anything serious, tell her. If you want to break it off, tell her.Being mean initially is still way nicer than just gradually becoming a jerk and waiting for her to end it.No one wants to be played with. It's tough to be rejected but even worse to be waiting for something that might never happen.