Be Independent

  Girls, no one wants to date a woman who is clingy and demanding. Men would just avoid that headache like a plague. Go out into town with your girlfriends, give him space and don't nag him about having a boy's night out either! When your guy sees that you need him for the important things in life, like emotional support and can otherwise take care of yourself and then some, he will be more likely to treat you with respect and would love to show you how much he cares for you. Lay off on the cuss word Coming from someone who has the vocabulary of a pirate herself, it really is very unattractive to relay a string of cuss words when having a normal conversation with your guy. Expletives are a way of releasing one's tension and negativity and if you do that too often in front of your guy, it won't make you look irresistible to him.  Now, I know it sounds unrealistic. With so much happening in a day, a girl's gotta be able to relax and be the way she wants to be, but next time you act like a lady, be sure you sound like a 'Fking' lady too! Be a Tease No, not the kind you are thinking of, You dirty mind, You! Unlike popular notion, once you get the attention of your guy, you should be able to stimulate his mind into missing you when you leave. Stimulate his mind, ask questions, laugh at his jokes (silly as they may be), flirt a little and show a genuine interest in his hobbies and likes. Be warned though, most men can see through fakes and we are sure you yourself wouldn't want to be in a relationship that doesn't intrigue you. Show genuine interest in him and you will be surprised to see how much he likes it! Don't Get Overemotional It's easy for most of us to cry our hearts out at the simplest inquiries into our day. A simple question like - 'How was your day?' can lead to a monologue of 20 minutes on how that b!tch at work scr3wed you over for promotion. Remember to analyze and understand the mood of your partner before you get too emotional about things. Lead with your happy mood. Youthfulness is a sure fire way of looking irresistible. Sure, you need to vent sometimes, but that what girl friends and vodka martinis are for! It's simple, You want your guy to find you sexy, show him your 'FUN' side! Now that you have an insight into what men find sexy in a woman, we are sure the upper hand  in this battle of the sexes will gain you brownie points and help you attract men. Do share this listicle with your guy and girl friends and let us know how it went!